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Today, for good or bad, online dating is one of the most popular ways to meet people. The popularity of Internet dating sites has added to this new way of getting to know someone. Nowadays, you can find dating websites for almost any interest. Whether you’re just looking for a Single Women or have some specific spiritual, lifestyle, or other needs, there is someone out there for you who is just a few mouse clicks away. And for those with few social skills it is an ideal way to get to know people. So, with all the great dating sites online today, it has become easier than ever to find someone

Of course, care must be taken when using the Single Women for this. The biggest difference between online dating and dating someone you meet in person is that you do not have the same ability to interact with them in person. You don’t have the same chance to look in their eyes and see if they are who they say they are. This is why caution should be used online. Common sense is absolutely essential when considering dating anyone, but more importantly someone you have met online.

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Have you ever had a dating situation that started out great but then went downhill rapidly when things got more serious? This seems to be a fairly common phenomenon -- and a tremendously frustrating one. This reminds me of a question one of my students once asked me: "Do you believe that both parties of a relationship must first have self-love in order to function healthily without attachment and dependency?"

The short answer to that question is 'Yes'. But you didn't come here for the short answer, so here's the long answer.

The self-love question is essential. Let's talk about the 'self-concept'. Basically, our self-concept encompasses all our beliefs and judgments about ourselves. The self-concept attempts to satisfy two motives simultaneously: self-enhancement and self-consistency.

Generally, people like things that give them self-enhancement (e.g. compliments). However, if you don't like yourself, then the self-enhancement runs into the self-consistency requirement (e.g. "Why does he like me when I'm clearly not deserving").

In the beginning of a relationship, when you start dating, the self-enhancement motive is dominant. But as a relationship becomes longer term, the self-consistency motive starts to dominate, and what you get is the partner with low self-esteem thinking that the other partner is insincere, lying and just buttering her (or him) up.

And then she breaks up with you. Basically because you were being a sincere, genuine, complimentary kind of guy. (This also explains why some women gravitate again and again towards jerks -- because the jerk is fulfilling her self-consistency requirement *exactly*. Rather unfortunate.)

2) How does she treat other people? She may be treating you nicely, because we usually put our best foot forward at the outset of a relationship when we start dating. But how about the rest of the world? Generally people treat others with the same degree of respect they have for themselves (think about that one for a sec). So if she's mean to others, treats others like dirt and is generally unreasonable and demanding, chances are she thinks that's the kind of treatment she deserves herself as well. Be very, very wary of such a companion.

3) Is her speech mostly positive or negative? Is the glass half full or half empty? Are her days a litany of disaster and conspiracy against her happiness? Is she inordinately fond of words like can't, won't, didn't, isn't going to, shouldn't, etc etc? Once again, we tend to see the world not as it is but as we are. Beware.

In the absence of extended contact, these three clues should keep you in good stead. That's the kind of teaching I like to conduct in all my seminars: tools you can use IMMEDIATELY to enhance your fulfillment and success in life, especially in dating.

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Understanding Men and Dating - Tips For Women

Do you want to stop sitting at home alone? Are you tired of waiting for something to happen, but it never does? Would you like to learn how to be successful at meeting people and dating in today's world?

There are three major ways to meet someone:

* The first is to get out and go places. You have to show up over and over, be friendly, talk to people, and not take it personally when something doesn't happen for you immediately. Dating takes work, time, and patience. You have to persevere.

*The second is to get on the Internet. Hundreds of dating sites feature people who would love to meet you. Send a good picture, write an interesting profile, and answer questions with kindness. Always exercise caution, of course.

*The third is to network, telling family and friends that you would like to meet someone. I know you think that they already know that, but you must ask them. Don't get specific in how you want the person to look. Just say you would like to meet someone wonderful.

You may be home alone, but you don't have to be. Don't get isolated, which makes it hard to be successful at anything. There are people everywhere who would love to talk to you. Volunteer for a project that captures your heart, whether it is children, animals, the sick, or the elderly.

6. What new skills, techniques, or talents do you want to develop?

If you are home alone, get out of the house and go take a class. You could meet future dates there and, there is nothing like learning something new that gives bounce to your life. This makes you attractive.

You have two choices: you can keep fighting the idea of being home alone --or you can get a life that you love. If you need some help, you can find it.

If you learn how to enjoy the life you have, you will probably meet someone wonderful--someone who has interesting work, a great outlook on life, and knows how to have fun. Someone like you.

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