In this century, it is very common to have sex during dating. Sex after marriage is getting harder for most of the people to achieve. When you are dating the person that you really love, the feeling that you will experience while having sex is very special using Dating Sites. It is completely different when compared to when you are having a one-night stand.
By having sex with your lover, you will be able to feel more connected with him or her, and will be able to go the extra mile to satisfy your lover. While the feeling is special, there are a few things that remain the same, which are the things that you need to do to let your partner experience the best sex of his or her life using Dating Sites.
Dating Customs Around the World
Have you ever had a dating situation that started out great but then went downhill rapidly when things got more serious? This seems to be a fairly common phenomenon -- and a tremendously frustrating one. This reminds me of a question one of my students once asked me: "Do you believe that both parties of a relationship must first have self-love in order to function healthily without attachment and dependency?"
The short answer to that question is 'Yes'. But you didn't come here for the short answer, so here's the long answer.
The self-love question is essential. Let's talk about the 'self-concept'. Basically, our self-concept encompasses all our beliefs and judgments about ourselves. The self-concept attempts to satisfy two motives simultaneously: self-enhancement and self-consistency.
Generally, people like things that give them self-enhancement (e.g. compliments). However, if you don't like yourself, then the self-enhancement runs into the self-consistency requirement (e.g. "Why does he like me when I'm clearly not deserving").
In the beginning of a relationship, when you start dating, the self-enhancement motive is dominant. But as a relationship becomes longer term, the self-consistency motive starts to dominate, and what you get is the partner with low self-esteem thinking that the other partner is insincere, lying and just buttering her (or him) up.
And then she breaks up with you. Basically because you were being a sincere, genuine, complimentary kind of guy. (This also explains why some women gravitate again and again towards jerks -- because the jerk is fulfilling her self-consistency requirement *exactly*. Rather unfortunate.)
2) How does she treat other people? She may be treating you nicely, because we usually put our best foot forward at the outset of a relationship when we start dating. But how about the rest of the world? Generally people treat others with the same degree of respect they have for themselves (think about that one for a sec). So if she's mean to others, treats others like dirt and is generally unreasonable and demanding, chances are she thinks that's the kind of treatment she deserves herself as well. Be very, very wary of such a companion.
3) Is her speech mostly positive or negative? Is the glass half full or half empty? Are her days a litany of disaster and conspiracy against her happiness? Is she inordinately fond of words like can't, won't, didn't, isn't going to, shouldn't, etc etc? Once again, we tend to see the world not as it is but as we are. Beware.
In the absence of extended contact, these three clues should keep you in good stead. That's the kind of teaching I like to conduct in all my seminars: tools you can use IMMEDIATELY to enhance your fulfillment and success in life, especially in dating.
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